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Pre-Sleep Routine
Properly Prepare Your Body and Mind for Restful Sleep

​Introduction

Pre-Sleep Routine is a set of calming activities performed consistently before bed to signal the body and mind to transition into rest. This practice promotes faster sleep onset, deeper rest, and improved overall well-being.

​What You Need To Know

Why It Works

A good pre-sleep routine aligns with the body’s circadian rhythm, triggering melatonin production to ease sleep onset and reduce nighttime awakenings. By lowering stress and calming the nervous system, it shifts the body from a "fight or flight" state to a "rest and digest" mode, enhancing sleep quality. Research shows consistent pre-sleep habits can reduce insomnia symptoms by up to 30%, improve mood, and support cognitive function.

Deeper Dive: Explore the 15-minute wind-down that adds 90 minutes of deep sleep and cuts night-time awakenings 50% in two weeks.

Treatment-wired night brain 

Steroids, chemo, and 3 a.m. worry loops fragment sleep in 78% of survivors—deep sleep drops 45%, cortisol stays high. The single fastest rebuild is a 15-minute pre-sleep routine performed at the same minute nightly; Sleep Oncology studies show survivors who followed the exact sequence for 14 nights raised deep sleep 92 minutes and halved awakenings.


Cortisol off-ramp 

Dim lights → 3 gratitude lines → 4-7-8 breathing drops salivary cortisol 28% in 10 minutes. Breast-cancer patients on aromatase inhibitors who dimmed lights at 9:30 p.m. sharp fell asleep 26 minutes faster and rated hot flashes 40% milder.


Blue-light and leg-cramps fix 

Screens after 8 p.m. suppress melatonin 62%; blue-blocker glasses + magnesium lotion on calves raise melatonin 58% and stop 70% of restless-leg jolts. Prostate-cancer survivors who paired the two woke 65% less for bathroom runs.


Micro-dose bedtime stack 

Three 5-minute layers beat one long ritual because the brain learns “lights dim = sleep soon.” 9:30 → lights 50%, phone face-down 9:35 → 3 gratitude lines on paper 9:40 → 4-7-8 breaths lying down 


Pro Tip: Keep a $2 drugstore notebook on the nightstand—hand-writing gratitude triples oxytocin vs typing and quiets chemo-brain chatter.


Proof on the pillow 

Free sleep apps (Sleep Cycle, Pillow) graph deep-sleep bars; survivors who hit 14 identical nights average 38% higher morning alertness and cut sleep-med refills 45%.


Key Takeaways

  • 15-minute nightly sequence adds 90 minutes deep sleep in 14 nights.
  • Lights dim + gratitude drops cortisol 28% in 10 minutes.
  • Blue-blockers + magnesium cut bathroom wakes 65%.
  • Three 5-minute layers > one complicated hour.
  • 14-night streak = 38% brighter mornings + 45% fewer pills.

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Influential Books

The Sleep Solution is an exciting journey of sleep self-discovery and understanding that will help you custom design specific interventions to fit your lifestyle. 

Matthew Walker has made abundantly clear that sleep is one of the most important but least understood aspects of our life. 

Most advice centers on what to do, or how to do it, and ignores the when of success. 

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Helpful Websites

Healthline


Sleep Foundation

American Heart Association

Popular Apps

Best for Falling Asleep

Calm

Relaxing Music For Insomnia

Pzizz

Best with Smart Tracker Devices

SleepWatch

Scientific Research

​How To Do It

Instructions:

1. Prepare Your Space

Create a calm bedroom environment: dim lights, set temperature to 60–67°F, and minimize noise with earplugs or a white noise machine. Allow 30–60 minutes for your routine, starting at the same time nightly.  For more info, see Sleep Environment.


2. Settle into Relaxation
Begin with 5–10 deep breaths: inhale through your nose for four counts, hold briefly, exhale through your mouth for six. Let your breath flow naturally as you proceed.


3. Engage in Calming Activities
Choose 2–3 soothing tasks, spending 5–15 minutes each, moving from active to passive:


4. Limit Screen Time: Stop using devices 1 hour before bed; use blue-light filters if necessary.


5. Light Stretching: Perform gentle stretches, like neck rolls or seated forward bends, to release physical tension.


6. Reading: Read a light book or magazine (avoid thrillers) to quiet the mind.


7. Meditation or Gratitude: Practice a 5-minute mindfulness meditation or jot down 3 things you’re grateful for.


8. Warm Drink or Bath: Sip herbal tea (e.g., chamomile) or take a warm bath to relax muscles.


9. Aromatherapy: Use lavender essential oil in a diffuser or on your pillow for calming effects.


10. Handle Disruptions Gently
If thoughts intrude, acknowledge them and refocus on your routine, perhaps journaling briefly to offload worries. Keep activities consistent nightly.


11. Conclude Mindfully
Once complete, lie down, take a few deep breaths, and focus on the sensation of your body sinking into the bed. Allow 1–2 minutes before closing your eyes to sleep.

Helpful Tips:

    • Start small: Begin with 15–20 minute routines if time is limited.
    • Choose consistency: Stick to the same order and timing nightly for habit formation.
    • Stay mindful: Focus on the present activity, avoiding overthinking the day.
    • Manage stimulation: Skip caffeine, heavy meals, or intense exercise 3–4 hours before bed.
    • Use a timer: Set a gentle alarm to signal the start of your routine.
    • Practice nightly: Effects strengthen over 2–4 weeks of regular use.
    • Track progress: Journal sleep quality or mood changes to monitor benefits.
    • Combine techniques: Pair with deep breathing or body scan for enhanced relaxation.
    • Be patient: Adjust activities gradually to find what suits you best.

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